Congratulations, lovebirds! You’re officially engaged, and we couldn’t be more thrilled for you. (Cue the champagne pop!). Whether you’re sporting a shiny new ring or still soaking in all the feels, your engagement marks the start of a beautiful chapter! And, let’s be real, one of the most exciting first steps after getting engaged: wedding planning! As experienced Santa Fe Wedding Planners, we’re here to help you navigate those exciting (but sometimes overwhelming) first steps after getting engaged. So, grab your favorite celebratory beverage and let’s dive in!

But first, let’s turn your engagement excitement into a stress-free planning journey! Whether you’re envisioning full-service planning and design or expert day-of guidance to tie it all together, we’re here to make every step feel effortless. Reach out today to start planning your perfect Santa Fe wedding, and let’s make your dream day as extraordinary as the love you’re celebrating!

Groom lovingly leans his head on the bride's, as she holds a colorful bouquet by a wooden fence.

Photo Credit: Chelsea & Craig

Celebrate (Seriously, Don’t Skip This Step!)

Before you even think about color palettes or venues, one of the most important first steps after getting engaged is to take a moment to savor your engagement. Share the news with your inner circle, snap some adorable selfies (hello, ring shots!), and let yourself revel in the magic of this milestone.

Here’s a pro tip: plan a special date night or weekend getaway to bask in this moment together. Santa Fe has no shortage of romantic settings—from cozy casitas to breathtaking desert sunsets. (And if you’re already dreaming about hosting your wedding here, you’re in for a treat!).

Celebrating sets the tone for the journey ahead and helps you start planning with joy and excitement instead of stress.

Set a Budget and Define Your Priorities

Now that you’ve celebrated, it’s time to dive into one of the essential first steps after getting engaged: setting a budget and defining your priorities. (We promise this part doesn’t have to be painful!). One of the first steps after getting engaged is having that conversation about your wedding budget. This isn’t the most glamorous topic, but it’s absolutely essential for a smooth planning process.

Here’s the deal: Your budget will shape every decision you make, from the venue to the catering to the flowers. Sit down together (and maybe with any family members who plan to contribute) to get a realistic picture of what you’re working with.

Once you’ve set your budget, it’s equally important to nail down your priorities. Do you dream of a blowout reception with a live band, or is an intimate gathering with a gourmet dinner more your style? Knowing what matters most will help you allocate your budget and make decisions with confidence.

Ready to find the perfect Santa Fe wedding venue? Our guide to the top 5 venues is packed with inspiration to help you create an unforgettable celebration. 

Create a Vision Board

Time to let those Pinterest boards shine! Whether you’re a scrapbooker at heart or a digital diva, creating a vision board is one of the most fun steps after getting engaged. This is where your wedding style starts to take shape. Think colors, themes, and overall vibe.

Not sure where to start? We suggest pulling inspiration from your favorite places, personal style, or even your love story. For couples tying the knot in Santa Fe, there’s no shortage of dreamy inspiration. Picture adobe architecture, vibrant turquoise accents, and breathtaking mountain backdrops. (We’re swooning already!)

A vision board also helps your New Mexico Wedding Planner (wink, wink) bring your dream day to life. It gives us insight into your unique style and ensures that every detail feels authentically you.

Planning your 2025 wedding? Curious about the hottest 2025 wedding trends? From bold colors to sustainable details, our blog has all the inspo you need. Check it out now!

Bridal party poses in soft pink floral dresses and neutral tones, holding white bouquets against a garden backdrop.

Photo Credit: Blaire & Max

Establish a Guest List Estimate

Ah, the guest list. It’s one of those first steps after getting engaged that can feel overwhelming at first, but we promise it’s worth tackling early. Knowing how many people you’re planning to invite will shape big decisions like choosing a venue and setting your budget.

Start by creating a rough list of must-invite guests (family, close friends, etc.) and then build from there. Keep in mind that your guest count will have a big impact on your overall costs, so it’s helpful to have a ballpark number in mind before moving forward.

(Quick plug: This is another area where having a Santa Fe Wedding Planner on board can make your life so much easier. We’ll help you think through logistics like seating arrangements, RSVP tracking, and even guest accommodations.)

Why Hiring a Planner Early Changes Everything

Speaking of planners—this might be the single most important investment you make in your wedding planning journey. Hiring a New Mexico Wedding Planner early is one of the smartest first steps after getting engaged. It not only takes a massive load off your plate but also ensures that the rest of the process runs like clockwork.

Here’s what we bring to the table:

  • Expert guidance to help you stay on budget. (We’ll steer you away from unnecessary expenses).
  • Access to an incredible network of local vendors.
  • Stress-free timeline management (goodbye, last-minute panic!).
  • Creative ideas that align with your vision and priorities.

As local Santa Fe and Albuquerque Wedding Planners, we know the ins and outs of planning weddings in New Mexico. From navigating local weather (hello, stunning fall evenings) to securing the best venues and caterers. We’ve got your back every step of the way!

Why Santa Fe Is the Ultimate Wedding Destination

Now, let’s talk about why Santa Fe should be at the top of your wedding wish list. This vibrant city isn’t just a beautiful backdrop for your big day. It’s a full-on experience for you and your guests.

Here are just a few reasons we adore planning weddings in Santa Fe:

  1. Scenery that Wows: Think sweeping desert vistas, majestic mountains, and iconic adobe buildings. Whether you’re going for rustic chic or Southwest elegance, the landscape alone will have your guests swooning.
  2. Rich Culture: Santa Fe’s unique blend of Native American, Spanish, and Mexican influences creates a one-of-a-kind atmosphere that you won’t find anywhere else.
  3. Incredible Cuisine: Green chile everything, anyone? Santa Fe’s food scene is perfect for couples who want to treat their guests to an unforgettable culinary experience.
  4. Endless Activities: From art galleries and historic landmarks to hiking trails and hot springs, Santa Fe has something for everyone. (Your guests will thank you for choosing such an amazing destination!).

By choosing a local Santa Fe Wedding Planner, you’re not just hiring someone to coordinate the details—you’re gaining a partner who understands the heart and soul of this magical city.

Already set on a wedding weekend in Santa Fe? From unique activities to unforgettable guest experiences, our blog has everything you need to create the perfect celebration.

Wedding party stands on an outdoor platform, with the couple leading at the center and a rustic arch decorated with greenery and flowers in the background | first steps after getting engaged

Photo Credit: Chelsea & Craig

Let’s Make It Official!

If you’re feeling a mix of excitement and “where do I even start?” after getting engaged, you’re not alone! That’s why we’re here to guide you every step of the way. Whether you’re planning an intimate celebration or a grand affair. Our goal as your New Mexico Wedding Planners is to make the process joyful, stress-free, and uniquely you.

Ready to take the leap? Let’s chat about your vision and bring your dream day to life. (We promise it’ll be as fun as it sounds!).